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How to Recognize Anxiety Symptoms in Children

Kids can feel anxious just like adults do, but it doesn’t always show up the same way. A child might not say, “I feel anxious,” so it can be tough to tell what’s really going on. Instead of sharing their feelings with words, children often show them through behaviors....

The Role of Forgiveness in Marriage and Faith

Forgiveness is something we all need at some point, especially in close relationships like marriage. No matter how much love a couple shares, hurt feelings can still happen. Whether it is a sharp word said in frustration or a deeper wound that takes time to heal, most...

How to Communicate Better with Your Partner (Backed by Therapy Insights)

Good communication can bring couples closer. When we feel heard and understood, it’s easier to tackle big and small problems together. It also helps us build trust, feel safe, and enjoy the relationship more. Talking and listening might sound simple on paper, but in...
The Best Way to Combat a Panic Attack

The Best Way to Combat a Panic Attack

Your heart feels like it’s going to beat out of your chest. Suddenly your temperature is rising. You’re getting a sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach and feel like you’re out of breath. It’s getting harder to pace your breathing and your thoughts feel out of...

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3 Reasons Why Finding a Counselor Can Be So Hard

3 Reasons Why Finding a Counselor Can Be So Hard

Why is it so hard to find a counselor? After weeks of looking, you’re starting to think Maybe it’s best to just quit. You’re faced with multiple barriers you hadn’t even considered that leave you with thoughts like, Wait, how much does counseling cost? You don’t take...

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4 Easy Ways to Combat Anxious Thoughts

4 Easy Ways to Combat Anxious Thoughts

Anxiety is a condition that exists in the thoughts of the mind. Based on the thoughts you create, it can fuel worry, stress and even fear. One way to manage anxiety is through mental defense through the thoughts you think. Here are a few ways to help get that anxiety...

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What is Anxiety?

What is Anxiety?

What is anxiety? Does everyone have it? Will it ever go away? This blog will cover some of these questions about anxiety, what it is and how it works. The National Alliance on Mental Illness suggests over 40 million Americans have an anxiety disorder- which is likely...

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Why Counseling Kinda Sucks Pt. 3

Why Counseling Kinda Sucks Pt. 3

Counseling is difficult. It’s like an intense exercise of the brain, very similar to an intense physical workout- think Iron Man or Triathlon. It’s not easy; it pushes beyond your own mental limits and makes you question things that have always been your truth. It can...

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Why Grief Sucks So Bad

Why Grief Sucks So Bad

By Laura Kotlowski, LPC                 Loss and the grief that comes with it, are among the most difficult situations humans have to face.  Hands down.  I tell people close to me, “I don’t do grief well.”  It is my truth, and I...

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Why Counseling Kinda Sucks Pt. 2

Why Counseling Kinda Sucks Pt. 2

Ever had that feeling when everyone else is eating donuts for breakfast but you’re drinking your protein shake? How about that moment when you’re called lame for skipping the late-night outing with friends so you can be home before midnight? This is also one of the...

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4 Things to Expect When Starting Counseling

4 Things to Expect When Starting Counseling

What is counseling all about? Written by: Laura Kotlowski, MA, LPC, LCDC, NCC, CCTP, EMDR Trained Counseling is a journey of healing, gaining insights, and learning healthy ways to get along with life in general. We understand that starting counseling is a major...

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Why Counseling Kinda Sucks. Pt 1

Written by: Rebecca Flores  If you’re asking yourself, “Do I really need counseling?”, “Why can’t I get it together without counseling?” or “Why does everyone else look so happy and they’re not in counseling?” This article is for you. We get it. Counseling kinda...

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