The La Luz Blog

What is Generational Trauma and How to begin to stop it

What Is Generational Trauma? WRITTEN BY: GRACE NOWLIN, LPC-ASSOCIATE, LMFT ASSOCIATE, SUPERVISED BY ANNIE VIERS, LPC-S, LMFT-S Generational trauma refers to the impact of unresolved, high stress situations that are passed down from generation to generation in...

Unresolved Trauma Can Impact Your Marriage

WRITTEN BY: JENNIFER STOUTE Have you ever looked back after an argument with your spouse and thought, "Why did I react like that?", "My emotions feels really strong about this minor situation," or "I feel like my spouse is against me right now and have to go into...

Why Self-Care Isn’t Working- And What Can Actually Help

WRITTEN BY: GRACE NOWLIN, LPC-ASSOCIATE, LMFT-ASSOCIATE SUPERVISED BY ANNIE VIERS, LPC-S/LMFT-S You might have seen and heard people saying they are “in their self-care era." But what does that actually mean? What is self-care and why does it seem so hard to apply?...

Why Counseling Kinda Sucks. Pt 1

Written by: Rebecca Flores  If you’re asking yourself, “Do I really need counseling?”, “Why can’t I get it together without counseling?” or “Why does everyone else look so happy and they’re not in counseling?” This article is for you. We get it. Counseling kinda...

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Marriage Advice #ido

Marriage Advice #ido

I recently took an informal poll (shout out, you know who you are!) to hear what tips for a budding marriage all those married, separated, or divorced out there had. While the population was diverse, there were clear themes of listening and communication, being best...

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5 love languages and Healthier Communication

5 love languages and Healthier Communication

By guest blogger: Lisa Arce, LPC Have you found yourselves arguing more lately? Are you feeling disconnected, neglected or resentful? Unfortunately for a lot of us, when we become angry at our spouse or partner we tend to shove it down, ignore it or not deal with it....

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