The La Luz Blog
Why Grief Sucks So Bad
By Laura Kotlowski, LPC Loss and the grief that comes with it, are among the most difficult situations humans have to face. Hands down. I tell people close to me, “I don’t do grief well.” It is my truth, and I...
Why Counseling Kinda Sucks Pt. 2
Ever had that feeling when everyone else is eating donuts for breakfast but you’re drinking your protein shake? How about that moment when you’re called lame for skipping the late-night outing with friends so you can be home before midnight? This is also one of the...
4 Things to Expect When Starting Counseling
What is counseling all about? Written by: Laura Kotlowski, MA, LPC, LCDC, NCC, CCTP, EMDR Trained Counseling is a journey of healing, gaining insights, and learning healthy ways to get along with life in general. We understand that starting counseling is a major...
Why Counseling Kinda Sucks. Pt 1
Written by: Rebecca Flores If you’re asking yourself, “Do I really need counseling?”, “Why can’t I get it together without counseling?” or “Why does everyone else look so happy and they’re not in counseling?” This article is for you. We get it. Counseling kinda...
5 Ways to Know if your Stress is actually Anxiety
Everyone experiences stress and worry from time to time. The difference between feeling stressed versus having clinical anxiety is very specific. Here are a few things to keep an eye out for if you’re wondering if your worry is becoming a problem. Feeling anxious can...
4 Questions to Answer BEFORE Starting Counseling
So you’ve decided it’s time to get counseling, but you’re not sure where to start? Here are the 4 questions you must answer before choosing a counselor: Will I use my insurance or go the private pay route? What is the problem I’m facing? What are their office hours?...
Barely Adjusting or Well Adjusted?
SlotogateDoes staying at home make you feel like your mind is going a little crazy? Have you noticed how many people seem to be adjusting, baking, crafting, completed DIY projects and being stellar home school teachers? Do you feel the exact opposite? You’re not...
What is this Telehealth Business?
What is Telehealth Counseling? Telehealth has been called “distance counseling,” “telecounseling,” “virtual counseling,” “online therapy” and the like. We’re all talking about the same thing- counseling that happens virtually through a tech device. The American...
How to Deal with Sadness During the Winter Season #whysoglumchum
Not feeling the holiday spirit? Do the holidays have you feeling glum? If so, you’re not the only one. Did you know holidays have a tendency of making those who feel happy, happier? and those who feel sad, sadder? Maybe you’re grieving a breakup, divorce, death of a...
Marriage Advice #ido
I recently took an informal poll (shout out, you know who you are!) to hear what tips for a budding marriage all those married, separated, or divorced out there had. While the population was diverse, there were clear themes of listening and communication, being best...
5 love languages and Healthier Communication
By guest blogger: Lisa Arce, LPC Have you found yourselves arguing more lately? Are you feeling disconnected, neglected or resentful? Unfortunately for a lot of us, when we become angry at our spouse or partner we tend to shove it down, ignore it or not deal with it....
What to Say when your Kid Says This #whentolisten #whentoignore
Below is a list of common complaints you are likely to hear your child say, especially if they are into their teen or tween years. Although you are likely pretty sharp on knowing your kid, below is a list of statements that are some common we may find ourselves...