The La Luz Blog
What is Quality of Life?
WRITTEN BY: MARQUIA CALDWELL, LPC Quality of life is the degree to which you are healthy, comfortable, and able to participate in or enjoy life. It’s often reflected in your physical, mental, emotional, and psychological wellbeing. The definition of quality of life...
Mommy Guilt- and Why it feels so Heavy.
If you’re a working mother who struggles with “mommy guilt" this blog is for you. This blog will review the difference between mommy guilt and mommy shame and why it feels so heavy to experience it. For those of you who have heard of the renowned Brene Brown, much of...
5 Easy Ways to Manage Anxiety
WRITTEN BY: KIMBERLY ALANIZ, LCSW-S Do you feel like getting your anxiety under control seems too hard? Below are 5 easy things you can do today to get you anxiety under control- and each just take few minutes. 1.Step away from the caffeine Although coffee affects...
The Best Way to Combat a Panic Attack
Your heart feels like it’s going to beat out of your chest. Suddenly your temperature is rising. You’re getting a sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach and feel like you’re out of breath. It’s getting harder to pace your breathing and your thoughts feel out of...
3 Reasons Why Finding a Counselor Can Be So Hard
Why is it so hard to find a counselor? After weeks of looking, you’re starting to think Maybe it’s best to just quit. You’re faced with multiple barriers you hadn’t even considered that leave you with thoughts like, Wait, how much does counseling cost? You don’t take...
4 Easy Ways to Combat Anxious Thoughts
Anxiety is a condition that exists in the thoughts of the mind. Based on the thoughts you create, it can fuel worry, stress and even fear. One way to manage anxiety is through mental defense through the thoughts you think. Here are a few ways to help get that anxiety...
4 Unexpected Behaviors You May See in an Anxious Child
Anxiety is a preoccupation of worry that interferes with functioning. It gets in the way of daily routine and causes a tremendous amount of stress that leaves one feeling overwhelmed, uneasy, scared, and worried. With adults, it can be easier to diagnose anxiety...
Trauma and How it Affects People
Ever hear people throwing around the word "trauma" or "traumatic" and wonder what that is. This article will give you a better understanding of what trauma is and how it impacts people in the long and short run. There are some who have gone...
What is Anxiety?
What is anxiety? Does everyone have it? Will it ever go away? This blog will cover some of these questions about anxiety, what it is and how it works. The National Alliance on Mental Illness suggests over 40 million Americans have an anxiety disorder- which is likely...
Why Counseling Kinda Sucks Pt. 3
Counseling is difficult. It’s like an intense exercise of the brain, very similar to an intense physical workout- think Iron Man or Triathlon. It’s not easy; it pushes beyond your own mental limits and makes you question things that have always been your truth. It can...
Why Grief Sucks So Bad
By Laura Kotlowski, LPC Loss and the grief that comes with it, are among the most difficult situations humans have to face. Hands down. I tell people close to me, “I don’t do grief well.” It is my truth, and I...
Why Counseling Kinda Sucks Pt. 2
Ever had that feeling when everyone else is eating donuts for breakfast but you’re drinking your protein shake? How about that moment when you’re called lame for skipping the late-night outing with friends so you can be home before midnight? This is also one of the...